I remember watching the 2006 Germany World cup games during July of 2006, and thinking "I would love to play soccer again." I started playing soccer with a co-ed group of men and women that I met off of Craigslist. I enjoyed playing with these folks, but as sport is one of the last unabashed arenas of homophobia, I remember hearing offensive remarks made occasionally by the straight folks I played soccer with and I realized, "These people don't know I am gay." I am out in all other realms of my life: work, family, friends, but somehow I was unsure of how to be out and yet remain on the team as "the gay guy."
Several months later I met a fellow by the name of Andrew. He is also gay, and said he was also interested in playing soccer. Andrew and I noted that there were gay leagues for softball, bowling, volleyball, and other sports, but we were unaware of any sort of GLBT friendly soccer group. At that point we hatched the idea of putting together a GLBT group of people in the Minneapolis/St. Paul area to play soccer. This blog is a documentation of this process, and our progress at becoming better soccer players.
Since we started this in the winter months, we would have to play indoors as Minnesota in winter is not hospitable to playing soccer outside. To start with, I put up some advertisements on Craigslist for GLBT soccer players. Our first set of advertisements went on the activity partners, men seeking men, and women seeking women message boards. The first post I made was short and to the point:
Soccer for Gay, Lesbian, Bi, Trans and other friendly people
There are GLBT leagues for several other sports in the Twin Cities, but I grew up playing soccer. Several people are looking to find other persons interested in meeting up to play soccer with other GLBT folks. This is a great way to get fit and to meet people who enjoy the benefits of being physically active.
We are looking for men and women of various ages who want to get out on the soccer field and remember how fun it is to play soccer. You don’t have to be an excellent player. Perhaps you have not set foot on a soccer field for several years, but you want to get out there and kick around a ball. Email me if you are interested in playing.
During the winter we will play on indoor fields, and there will be a small fee to cover the cost of our field rental. At this point we are considering playing on Monday nights, but this could change.
* Location: Minneapolis/St. Paul
At our first night there were 4 people that showed up, including Andrew and I. Andy and Sandy were the other inaugural players. Here is the break down of our attendance so far.
Week 1 - January 22, 2007: 4 players
Week 2 - January 29, 2007: 7 players
Week 3 - February 5, 2007: 6 players
Week 4 - February 12, 2007: ~8 players
Week 5 - February 19, 2007: ~8 players
Week 6 - February 26, 2007: ~8 players
Week 7 - March 5, 2007: 10 players
Week 8 - March 12, 2007: 6 players
I have noticed that our skill level is increasing slowly and each time a player shows up he/she is better than the week before.
If you are interested in joining us to play on a Monday night, please email us at
mnglbtsoccer@gmail.com